Challenges in Relationships

You could have a fear of the new and different -- of sudden changes. However, once they occur you really get a charge out of them. You would like to break away and live an unusual, exciting existence, but your conventionality holds you back from making the move. The result is that you often feel frustrated and mired in the humdrum. Jealousy in love affairs could present a problem.

Venus Square Uranus (orb: 00 16')

You are torn between the impulse to stand on your own feet, and a need to be cared for and nurtured. Your independent streak may be ashamed of the need on your part for love and affection. It's a no win situation. This could also be re-enforced by a mother and father who may have worked at cross-purposes. The resulting tension will have to be dealt with gradually and methodically.

Moon Square Sun (orb: 03 53')

Everyone would agree that you make a good critic, although not everyone would agree that you are always fair. You don't like opposition. In conversations, you may find yourself squelching others' points of view. You have great mental endurance and tend to involve yourself in projects that most would find tedious. You like repetitive work.

Mercury Opposition Saturn (orb: 04 02')

You are a real dreamer but can't always manage to put your vision into words. You may occasionally be accused of cloudy thinking and of letting your imagination run wild. There is a likelihood that you frequently get yourself into situations in which you are disappointed, or disappoint others. Some clear thinking on your part could prevent others from getting the feeling that you are intentionally misleading them. You may have trouble paying attention, keeping your mind on what you are doing.

Mercury Opposition Neptune (orb: 04 29')

You may have an inordinate fear of dying or confrontation, for there is a part of you that resists change and tends to put off getting down to the real heart of a problem and clearing it up. This attempt to avoid confrontation may find you involved in one power struggle after another when it comes to personal relationships. All of this creates a lot of energy that you carry around with you. Working it out takes patience and great care. You tend toward explosions and may have strong disagreements with authority figures.

Sun Square Pluto (orb: 05 26')

Everyone who comes to know you will remark on your high ideals. You are indeed a beautiful soul, and you probably suffer many disappointments. Friends may see you as unrealistic and otherworldly, afraid to put your dreams to the bitter test of life and actuality. Those close to you may feel that your continual disappointments are a deception on your part, a refusal to face life.

Venus Opposition Neptune (orb: 06 53')

You find yourself hampered by authority and elders. Too many rules and regulations may inhibit or put a damper on what your heart feels like doing. You may procrastinate and put off attending to the necessities, with the result that duties tend to pile up. You might be somewhat defensive about expressing your real likes and dislikes for fear of being criticized or cut down. You don't always play by the rules.

Venus Opposition Saturn (orb: 07 19')

You have always felt vulnerable when deep emotional issues are brought up, and may have a history of avoiding confrontation and self-examination. You are ever so sensitive to ideas of death, helplessness, and vulnerability in general. You see them only too well, and they haunt you. There may well be some childhood experiences that were rough or harsh for you to accept. Any partner will have to tread very gently when it comes to matters of feelings and security. You may tend to dominate a relationship, but without success.

Moon Opposition Pluto (orb: 09 19')